Sia Stevens

We are living through a crisis of dating and relationships. We have more freedom than any generation before us, and yet we feel emptier, lonelier, and more replaceable than ever. Why is that?

When a young woman struggles to get over her breakup, she doesn’t realize the journey ahead will take her far beyond regret and healing. From the sleepless glow of Seattle’s towers to the stillness of the mountains, from Hollywood’s glittering hills to the wisdom of ancient temples, she begins tracing the lost thread of what makes relationships truly work.

What creates attraction? What sustains it? Is love built on chemistry or consistency? Attention or intention? Freedom, or something deeper that makes commitment possible?

A Million Green Flags is part memoir, part manifesto, and part meditation—an exploration of lasting love in a world that mistakes access for intimacy. If you are tired of red flags, this book is for you. It won’t teach you how to avoid red flags, but something even better: how to cultivate the green ones. Because transformation is possible, and the strongest connections aren’t found. They’re built—one green flag at a time.

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